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Five affirmations to calm your nerves
I'm tired because I'm exhausted, not because I'm weak. My productivity does not define my humanity. Saying 'No' or resting is not selfish, it's reclaiming my energy. Healing is not becoming more efficient, it's feeling more alive. It's takes the tiniest spark of light to pierce the darkness.
hmariellaburns
4 hours ago1 min read


No light is too small that it cannot pierce darkness.
Katherine Mays biographical book 'Wintering' writes "Our work is not to defeat the natural forces of sadness, death, the dark. Our journey is to learn to live with them." Being in the shadow may not always restful but most of the time we also know that we are never far from the dawn. Sometimes however being in the shadow means we go deep. To the kind of place where we lose our words and our hope. Our sensitive nervous system tries to protect us literally shutting down the con
hmariellaburns
5 hours ago2 min read


In the midst of winter, we make our own sunshine.
“In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer." Camus's1954 essay is really a reminder of the inevitability of the polarity of life. Most of my adult life I tried to escape the UK winter, heading to South East asia early in December. Returning reluctantly late January. Winter felt sad, dark and lonely. Learning to embrace this cyclical seasonal process has been once of the greatest reframes of my life. Today laughing my tits in the icy sea or loc
hmariellaburns
Jul 12 min read


Late discovered ADHD in women. What is it? Is a diagnosis worthwhile? How can it be better managed?
ADHD I imagine is like being an exquistie bird, encaged, unable to share their gifts. Feeling unsafe and desperately looking out, wanting to belong. Healing if it exists is unmasking, accepting who we are, stepping out of our prison and learn to fly. Carl Jung my go-to for wisdom, experience and hope talked alot about self-acceptance. A mystic, yogi, psychologist, medic, psychiatrist, first humanist, broke cultural barriers and told the tale with humility..all of the things s
hmariellaburns
Jun 116 min read


Yoga, Mitochondria & Life Force
This post is based on the article Cellular Vitality: Unlocking the Power of Mitochondrial Health Posted on February 18, 2025 Â by Katie...
hmariellaburns
Feb 212 min read


Red flags when choosing a therapist or coach.
Healing can become a treadmill of the latest gurus, sugar coated self-help or just a long line of bad therapists or coaches. A great...

MB
Jan 12, 20242 min read


Jealousy and Envy: a declaration of your inferiority!
Cast your mind back to the last time you felt jealousy or envy. I remember it vividly. A seemingly rational thought. "I don't like the...
hmariellaburns
Jul 26, 20224 min read


I'm not Flexible.
I'm not Flexible. Is the number ONE reason why people don't try yoga. This is like telling yourself "I'm not going to the dentist because my teeth are not in great condition." And my reply "Maybe that's why you might want to give it a go.' In Western cultures, yoga is often associated with bendy 20 year old insta gymnasts. That's not yoga. Yoga is not about the shape of your pose but about the shape of your life. And yoga teaches us is how to breathe, move and connect to ours

MB
Jun 18, 20222 min read


Sitting is the new smoking. Here's what to do about it.
We know the perils of smoking, however little is published about the seemingly innocuous activity of sitting on a chair? Former NASA scientist, Dr. Joan Vernikos, has compared sitting in a chair for prolonged periods to being weightless in space. It has a devastating effect on our muscles, bones, joints. Sitting in a chair causes the abdominals to lose their tone and strength, results in a lack of mobility in the hips and shortens our hip flexors. This means we are prone to c

MB
May 21, 20223 min read


Should you MEDITATE?
Mindfulness meditation (MM) has been hailed as the cure for everything from depression to autism, from chronic pain to diabetes. In Sport...

MB
Apr 14, 20224 min read


A Call to Presence
Sadly 2020 marked the passing of Sir Ken Robinson. I've always respected Sir Ken Robinson's work in education and his TED talk is the...

MB
Sep 30, 20202 min read
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